Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Making memories!

If my mom never wants to travel to Utah in the winter again, I have to say that I won't blame her! If there was something that could go wrong on her trip, it did. Below is a list of things that happened in preparing for her trip, during her visit here and on her way home:

1. I come down with a cold a few days before my mother's arrival and end up almost with no voice while she is here.
2. My mother reacts to some of the anesthesia or medication given during a dentist appointment the day before she begins her journey to Utah and is up all night vomiting.
3. Once arriving at the airport in Kansas City, my mother finds out that her flight can't leave until their flight crew arrives from Chicago where a huge winter storm had gone through. She leaves two hours after her original flight departure time. She had about 20 to 30 minutes once she arrived in Las Vegas to catch her plane to Salt Lake City. She was the last of about eight people that they let on before the plane was full.
4. Dave, my mother and I drive through a horrible snow storm to get to Salt Lake City for my blood draw appointment. There was about 3 to 4 inches of snow on I-15. Good thing we have four wheel drive!
5. After my appointment we head out to our truck to head home and the truck won't start. We try jumping it, cleaning the battery posts, etc. Nothing works. After learning that there are no rental cars available in SLC on a Sunday, we call Dave's brother in Bountiful who comes to our rescue. He takes us back to his house so that we can borrow his truck until we can figure out what to do with our truck. His truck has no extended cab like ours so we fit the three of us in the front of his small truck. It was VERY tight, but we made it work. We then make our way home to Provo.
6. After a call to our mechanic the next day, we decide to tow the truck from SLC to Provo to have it fixed. Good thing for mothers...she was able to use her AAA membership to have our truck towed for free!!! That saved us about $150! We make our way to SLC to wait for the tow truck to arrive. About 3:00 p.m. Monday afternoon our mechanic calls to inform us that the only thing he can find wrong with it is that there is corrosion built up on the clamp around the battery post. He replaces the clamp and the truck works fine. It was a $38 fix!
7. On Tuesday we decide to take a driven tour around Provo so my mom can see the sights. I decide that she needs to see the Provo River. While walking back to the truck after seeing the river my mom slips on the ice and falls down. My mom's head even bounces off the ground with enough force that her glasses fly off. I knew I had killed my mother. She said she was all right and got up. So far she has had no repercussions from her fall...thank goodness!
8. Tuesday evening my mom heads home. She calls me periodically throughout the evening to update me on her travels. There is snow in Kansas City so we are all worried about her getting in at 11:30 p.m. and driving through snow and ice. She calls at 11:30 p.m. our time (12:30 a.m. Kansas time) and says she is in Oklahoma City. They closed the runways in KC and diverted them to OKC. She spends the night in a hotel. This morning she left OKC and finally made it to KC. Her car has given her some problems because of how cold it is. She hasn't had the greatest roads to drive on either. Last time I heard from her she was about 10 minutes away from my aunt and uncle's house. She was stopping for lunch with my uncle and was then making her way home to Halstead (another 2 1/2 hours down the road). She said the roads haven't been too bad and that she wanted to just keep plugging along.

Needless to say, it has been an adventure. Mom, we love you so very much and are so thankful you made the effort to come see us! We are glad you could be here with us when we got the results of my pregnancy test. Your presence made it easier! Hopefully next time your journey won't be so difficult!

Sunday, February 3, 2008

The results are in...

After an eventful morning of driving to Salt Lake City in a snow storm and having our truck die on us at the clinic, we finally know the results of the pregnancy test. It didn't quite go the way we wanted it to. IVF did not work for us a second time around either. We were more hopeful this time than last, but still remained cautious. It is hard to take, but since we've been through this before we are definitely more prepared.

We do appreciate all of your love and support! It is nice to have family and friends!

Monday, January 28, 2008

My mom is coming!

It has been since my grandma's funeral last September that I've seen my mom! I'm so excited that she is flying out here for an extended weekend trip. She is coming out to be with us for the pregnancy test results. We are hoping she is here for a big celebration, but if it doesn't go like we want it to, then she will be here to comfort us. She arrives this Friday and leaves on the 5th. It will be a short trip, but definitely worth it. I'm very excited!!!

Thursday, January 24, 2008

IVF Update



I'm finally off bed rest so I thought I would post an update. We've received lots of calls from people thinking about us and we do appreciate it! Without the love and support of our friends and family we could not do it.

The Embryologist at the facility that we go to for IVF gives us a picture of our embryos so I thought I would post that picture so you all can see what a 6 or 7 day old embryo looks like. We only ended up with 2 embryos to transfer because over the course of the day on Monday our 3rd embryo died. In the picture, the embryo on the top is not as high quality as the embryo on the bottom. They give embryos grades based on how well they are dividing and on what time frame. The embryo on the bottom is a grade A which is the best grade they give. Makes sense, huh?

I'm trying to take things as easy as possible over the course of the next week. We want these two little guys to be able to make a home in my uterus for sure! I am scheduled to go in on Sunday, February 3rd for my blood draw to see if I'm pregnant. We should know sometime that afternoon of the results. I will keep everyone posted!

We continue to be cautiously hopeful and put our faith in God.

We love you all and do appreciate your thoughts and prayers!

Monday, January 21, 2008

Asking for prayers

After exhausting all other medical options, a little over a year ago we decided to try in vitro fertilization (IFV) to begin a family. We were given high expectations by our physician and felt this was our answer for our infertility problems. We applied for a grant to help fund the cause and even were awarded that. But...our attempts were unsuccessful. During the process we ended up with a total of 5 living embryos, but only used 2 of them in our first attempt. We decided to freeze the remaining 3 embryos to use at a later date.

When our first attempt was unsuccessful we really went through a grieving phase. We were so positive that it would work and so devastated when it didn't. Even our doctor was a little amazed that it didn't work. He encouraged us to think about using the 3 remaining embryos, but it was too soon for us to even consider.

Just in the last few months we started thinking about what we should do with those remaining embryos. We even looked into adoption and attended an adoption orientation class. We strongly desire the opportunity to have children! During our adoption orientation class we both got strong feelings that that was not what we were supposed to be doing at that time. We then started thinking about using our embryos at another trial of IVF.

We began the cycle of IVF at the end of November and are scheduled to have our embryo transfer tomorrow!!!! After lots of oral medications and injections, I'm ready! There was a possibility that our embryos would not survive the thawing process, but we received word at 8 a.m. this morning that all 3 of them survived! I was really shocked and had prepared myself for either not having any embryos to transfer or only having 1 to transfer.

Our transfer is scheduled for 8 a.m. tomorrow. They will put all 3 of the embryos inside my uterus using a small catheter. I then am on bed rest for the rest of the day and all day Wednesday. About 12 days later I will go in for a blood test to see if I'm pregnant. We are hoping that at least 1 embryo implants itself, but would be excited if we got twins or triplets. Triplets scare me just a little bit, but the thought of twins makes me very excited. We shall see!

I will definitely keep everyone posted and continue to hope for only good news this time around. Keep us in your prayers, please!

Monday, January 7, 2008

Crazy plants


We have some crazy plants growing in our house! Our Christmas Cactus bloomed at Halloween and now our Hibiscus is blooming in January! We were told to bring in our Hibiscus for the winter because they don't do well in cold, cloudy conditions. They like lots of sun and warm weather. We figured it would struggle this winter, but were hopeful that we could at least keep it alive somewhat until we could take it back outside this spring. Much to our surprise it is thriving and doing very well inside...almost too well. It has grown a foot or more since we brought it in and we are worried we may not be able to get it back outside!!!